Life is relational.
Everything exists in relationship, and relationship exists among all things. Your relationship with yourself is the foundation upon which you encounter life, experience others and perceive the world around you.
Welcome. I’m, Tamara. My entire life has been oriented around relationship starting as a child when I was fascinated with my parents and how they engaged with one another. Their relational dynamic didn’t feel good to me, so I looked everywhere I could to find an expression of relationship that did.
My quest seemed fruitless. Everywhere I searched within the relational realm, I felt pain. It wasn’t until decades later and a lifetime of feeling a vast ocean of relational pain among people that I began to realize the pain I perceived was a byproduct of separation. Individuals were operating in separation from themselves, in separation from each other and separate from the animating force of Life itself.
I am committed to offering people an alternative possibility to their experience of relational pain. Human beings need not suffer and endure feelings of separate aloneness believing in a perceptual world of scarce vitality and limited abundance.
Life thrives naturally. Yet when we experience ourselves as separate, we are blind to the reality of Life’s generosity and magnanimous nature. We feel the pain of separation as an existential predisposition to be endured, and can spend our lives yearning for something, anything to relieve our unacknowledged ache for reunion with our true essence and naturally, unconditioned expression.
I serve those who feel a rabid dissatisfaction with living anything less than a fully authentic life, those who feel called to discover themselves anew through participating in an experiential reunion with their uniqueness, gifts and inherent worth before it was made dependent upon a world of measured evaluation and judgment.
I support those who feel called to shed the delusions of a separate, scarcity driven, production oriented existence and awaken to their enoughness, their wholeness, their innate resourcefulness, resilience, power and potential absent of conditional value and inspired by unihibited creative expression.
Does what I’m saying seem vague and unobtainable? It’s not meant to appeal to your conditioned mind or intellect, which will likely be threatened by such an expansive possibility.
Take a moment and ask your thinking mind to pause it’s busyness, so you can allow the energetic transmission my words convey to penetrate more deeply into your very being. What do you feel? Whatever you notice, trust that.
Are you intrigued? If not, then the paradigm of reunion is likely not for you. At least not now, and that’s okay. If yes, then I invite to explore further.
I am an agent of transition here to usher in a new age of reunion through relational consciousness. I am actively participating in the transformation of our human experience from the perceptual struggle born of our separation conditioned minds to that of being fully awakened and enlivened by the unified essential nature we all share with Life.
I am not claiming to be someone who has completed this transition. It’s an exploration I participate in every day. Throughout my exploration, I have discovered increasing aliveness and feel inspired to creatively catalyze next steps toward a profound transformation of consciousness and being.
To know they self is the key. To bring forth your being is the way. Being unlocks the kingdom. The kingdom, your kingdom, includes all of You. Without exception.
Our collective contribution to ushering in a new age of unified humanity will flow from this center of self-possessed sovereignty.
Tamara has a Psychology degree from the University of Colorado, and a post graduate Certification in Mediation from Colorado State University. Her insatiably curiosity about people and especially their relationship dynamics began as a small child while watching her parents, and knowing she wanted something different for herself.
She began coaching more than 20 years ago with an emphasis on freedom. Most people struggle to control the circumstances of their lives so they can secure feelings of safety, certainty and comfort. Tamara works with clients to become free from the separation conditioned mind, so peaceful well-being and wholeness is realized as their natural state independent of circumstances.
Tamara considers herself to be a consensus disruptor with no desire to fight against the status quo, but rather to create something new founded upon the sovereignty and uniqueness of each individual. Her expertise is facilitating relational consciousness. Life is relational. Everything exists in relationship, and relationship exists among all things. Our most fundamental relationship is with ourselves, and the quality of that relationship determines our experience of others and the world around us.
When facilitating clients within the relationship arena, she guides them beyond the declining paradigm of relationships based on the value of what partners do for one another and what they get from each other toward a new freedom-based paradigm. Without any predetermined agenda, relationship can transform into a space where partners simply enjoy one other and encourage each other’s growth and freedom through support that doesn’t bind, control, obligate, exploit, extract or expect.
For more than 20 years, Tamara has practiced numerous energy healing modalities and cultivated her innate intuitive mastery. In 2017, Tamara became a BioEnergetic Wellness Practitioner with NES to further augment her coaching practice. Her work as a NES Health Practitioner supports clients to dissolve blockages and distortions in their body-field that bind them to limiting subconscious patterns. Such habituated patterns often obstruct the ease of transitioning toward a more vibrant, uninhibited, resourceful, resilient and confident self expression.
Tamara deeply values freedom and transformation, and commits herself to those ready to answer the call to liberate themselves. Her philosophy is perhaps best revealed through the following quote.
"To compromise yourself is to suffer. To hold the pretense of appearances as more valuable than what is genuine creates a position of constant struggle. It makes life feel hard.
We are not here to demonstrate how well we can endure obligations and live up to expectations. We have the capacity to liberate ourselves from such binding narratives. But first we must come to value the freedom of living beyond those narratives more than the safety of societal and cultural validation." ~ Tamara Younker
• Master Intuitive •
• Certified Coach Practitioner •
• Workshop Facilitator •
• BioEnergetic Wellness Practitioner
with NES Health •
• Speaker • Author • Certified Mediator •
What People Are Saying about Tamara...
“Tamara Younker IS difference. She speaks, she facilitates and she coaches so you can access her in whatever milieu you are most comfortable, but you won’t be comfortable for long. Because she is difference, do not seek her out if you’re not ready for change. But, If you’re looking for expert guidance on a journey of self-discovery she’s your gal. If you’re a seeker, a pioneer, a bit of a maverick already in your life, her keen awareness and expert insight into energy, emotion and belief systems will blow the doors off your current world view and allow you to access parts of yourself you didn’t even know you had, bringing results you couldn’t even know you wanted. If you’re looking for more clarity, more choice and more possibility than ever before, Tamara has the questions for you. If you want to be drawn into the world of infinite freedom and delicious experience, you owe yourself as much time as you can afford with her, as soon as you can.” Sharon, Ontario, Canada
"I highly recommend Tamara as a facilitator. She has a relaxed, insightful, fun way of teaching and I imagine many people would find that she has a wonderful way of assisting them in increasing consciousness." Mara, Ontario, Canada
“I have been on a dedicated spiritual path for many years, but Tamara was able to pick up on the subtlety of my energy even when I wasn't aware that it existed AND how much pain I was actually choosing to live in. I feel like I am knowing myself again. There may not be a peace greater than that. Much gratitude to you Tamara, for spreading consciousness at the deepest level. You are a true gift to the world.” Lisa, Colorado
“Tamara totally invites you to step into who you truly are, into your potency, if you choose it. What a great person, facilitator and potent woman. I truly appreciate all she contributed to me. Thank you, Tamara. You are awesome indeed!" Sonia, Washington
"Tamara is an incredible teacher and being. She is very adept at finding that piece of you that can set you free. I will always be grateful that our paths crossed. She has a wonderful gift and I'm glad she's willing to share it!" Cynthia, Colorado