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But, it hurts so much when I give. ~ Tamara Younker

11/30/2016

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Did you decide giving was painful? I did.

I am incredibly excitable and naturally enthusiastic about things that make me feel alive that I enjoy, and I genuinely desire to share that joy with others. When that exuberance was not received by others---no matter the reason---I interpreted that to mean something about me. I must be wrong for giving too much. They way I give must be ineffective, inadequate. Or else, why would they refuse it?

Slowly, over time, I decided it was too painful to express, share and be naturally joyful because all too often I was met with not being received. And, that hurt. So, I shut the exuberant giving down. I closed myself off and kept it suppressed, which I have come to learn has been the source of great suffering in my life. I know now that what others won't receive is not about me. It never was.

Those who close themselves off from life believe they are protecting themselves from the wounding that comes from "out there." But, is that truly the source of our pain? Does it really come from "out there?"
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I remember being open and giving when I was younger, and with such ease. It matters not why I shut that down. It only matters that I can choose now to be open, and unleash my desire to give, share and be a beacon of possibility for ALL to see whether they receive it or not.
Today I'm showing up shining. And, grateful for it.
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Desiree Aragon link
1/9/2017 02:16:18 pm

Tamara thank you for this blog. I can relate to the energy of giving when I was a kid . And for some reason as an adult I shut of off . In the resent 2 weeks something with in me has shifted and my gifting to others has become so much more ease and as a result so has my receiving . I still noticed barriers dropping and the ease of receiving becoming greater and greater. I know this has a lot to do with the tools and resources of access consciousness. Thank you for choosing h to be an Access Consciousness Facilitator. I'm reading the following book "Divorcedless relationships " as I allow it to contribute to me my life is becoming so much more ease .

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Tamara Younker
1/9/2017 02:42:34 pm

Congratulations, Desiree! The greatest burdens of suffering we bear are when we withdraw from life and withhold the contribution of being and receiving from ourselves and the world. Seems you are making a new choice. That is both brave and beautiful. Keep following your lead.

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4/14/2023 02:09:33 am

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    Tamara Younker, CCP is a BioEnergetic Wellness Practitioner and Facilitator of Self Discover in service to greater Self Awareness, Self Autonomy and Personal Sovereignty.

    ​She hosted Consciousness Unleashed radio show on the World Puja Network, The Playground of Possibilities radio show on Inspired Choices Network and Seducing Aliveness on BlogTalk Radio. She is co-author of the Amazon #1 best selling book, The Energy of Healing.   

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