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Who Are YOU Relative to This Reality? ~ Tamara Younker

9/27/2014

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Recently I gave a talk in Seattle called, Intimacy: Breaking the Bondage of Relationship.  I ask questions beforehand, but never really know what I’m going to talk about until the energy arises in the room with the audience present.  It ended up being a fun exploration into stability points, and how we use them to keep ourselves in a state of bondage, or enslavement, to this reality. We don't generally consider that we have created our identity based on a relationship with this reality where we continuously evaluate ourselves relative to it.  Is there any freedom in that?  Or, is it where we trap ourselves in the ultimate no choice universe?

When we use this system of self-evaluation from stability points as a source of self-judgment, we create ourselves as subject to this reality. We enslave ourselves by buying the lie that this reality is superior and we are inferior, and thus allow it to dominate us.  This creates a trap where we're eternally trying to overcome an erroneous conclusion that this reality is greater than us. Then it seems as if our only option is to fight against it to prove that we do have the power to overcome it, which at the same time solidifies the stability points we use to perpetuate the conclusion that we are inferior.  Would an infinite being need to prove it has the power to overcome anything? Or, would an infinite being simply acknowledge the sovereignty it has had all along?  Things that make you go, "Hmmmm...."   

So, here's how the story goes.  We buy the lie that this reality has power over us and we use stability points to enforce that lie, which create a feeling of powerlessness and no choice. Then, we exhaust ourselves using all the force we can muster to fight against this reality to prove we have the power to overcome it.  Does that seem a little crazy to anyone else but me? 

Would you like to out create that insanity?  Acknowledge your choice in creating it!  Stop investing in the stability points you're using to maintain the lies, and choose again.  Choose again, and again, and again, and again and again until your choice creates a new reality where the expectations of this current reality, and what it would have you choose, are no longer relevant to YOU!

Developing intimacy with YOU acts as an antidote to everywhere you are living at the effect of this reality, which is designed to instill doubt in you and what you know.  What would be different if you choose to honor YOU, trust YOU, be in allowance of YOU, be vulnerable with YOU, and have gratitude for BEing YOU no matter what?  And, what if choosing that creates the world you desire to live in where possibility prevails and everything is a choice available to you?

What do you know about intimacy, that you have not been acknowledging you know, that if you acknowledged that you know it would change your reality?  What if intimacy is the space of BEing that is so simple the mind cannot comprehend it no matter how hard it tries?

Enjoy the exploration!  


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    Tamara Younker, CCP is a BioEnergetic Wellness Practitioner and Facilitator of Self Discover in service to greater Self Awareness, Self Autonomy and Personal Sovereignty.

    ​She hosted Consciousness Unleashed radio show on the World Puja Network, The Playground of Possibilities radio show on Inspired Choices Network and Seducing Aliveness on BlogTalk Radio. She is co-author of the Amazon #1 best selling book, The Energy of Healing.   

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